Pendants for Ashes for Sensory Memory

When we lose our loved ones, we always wonder how things would have been if they were alive. We feel this way because we miss their presence, especially when we lose our child. We treasure all the things that remind us about them. That includes the pendants for ashes. The last gift they left us before they departed from this world.

The sadness of their passing brought us pain and loneliness. It is like we are drifting apart from the world that we know and entering the unknown universe of sorrow. The joy of seeing them every day from the day they were born was short. It ended like how cold wind on rainy days touches our skin, and later it is gone.

Our child's smile is the energy that we need to survive the day. And the kryptonite that makes us weak. Their short existence in the world filled our hearts with so much joy that we can't contain. Seeing them growing every day was a habit that we don't want to end.

●     Their voices.

It is innate for any parent to memorize the voice of their children. It is one way of telling other people that we know our children more than anyone else. That is why when they are no longer around- we miss them because we are used to hearing their voices every morning. It is hard to wake up each day not hearing their voices anymore.

The sound of their laughter is a song to our ears. We never get tired of hearing it. Even they whine sometimes and throw tantrums. These episodes in their lives are like the favourite movie or series that we watch. We get mad, sad and have a lot more rollercoaster emotions. But that is okay. We keep on watching it because we love it.

Their voices are our indications that they are doing well every day. It is like our barometer to check whenever they are sad or happy. And when we can no longer hear their voice, we check on them if they are doing fine or something is already happening. That is how their voices are so essential in their lives.

●     Their comforting hugs.

After a whole day of working, we are inspired to go home early because our children are waiting at home. We are so eager to finish all our work and get straight to the house. It is because we are always looking forward to their hugs. The comfort that we always want even when we are working.

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Aside from our better halves, our children's warm embrace recharges us to survive and work harder. But if we lose one of them, it paralyzes half of our being. We can no longer function the way we used to do before. We miss the part of who we were when they passed away.

We are missing out on one of the batteries for us to function well in everything. We are losing our control. But we need to carry on with life because we still have our other children to tend to, but it is no longer the same liveliness as compared to what we used to have.

●     Their faces.

Their faces are the sun that brightens your day. Their silly faces sometimes are your reminder that you are so blessed to have them. But one of the rays of your sun stops shining. You miss out on the part of your being because of darkness. It is because the ray of sunshine is no longer shining.

You will be walking in that dark path. It is like what we face every day when one of our children or our child is no longer alive. We are walking into a path that we don't know where it leads us because it is so dark. And it feels heavy while we are taking each step.

We want to see their faces again and again. We will never get tired of looking at them. We want to touch it. But we can no longer do that to them because they are already gone. What we can do is stare at their photo and pray that it reaches them the cry of our hearts. And that every day we miss their silly and happy faces.

●     Their Smell

Aside from our children's voices, they have a distinct smell that we love. Even if we blindfold our eyes, we know it is them. Their sweats, clothes and even the perfume that they are using, we can distinguish it. After they passed away, their room would still smell like them.

Our sensory nerves are already used to their smell, and when we start cleaning their rooms, we are starting to miss the smell. How it feels like when they are still alive and what could have been the future smell when they are already adults. We miss them because we miss the smell of them around the house.

Even if they are no longer around, we feel like we can still smell around the house because our noses have already been used to their smell for many years. And we can't take it out easily.

Though there are times we are no longer functioning well because we lost our child, we need to move forward slowly in life because that is what our children would like to see if they are still around.