It became one of the highlights of our year. Even though it has been almost two (2) years, the pain is still fresh, as if it happened yesterday. We are celebrating the second year without them, and some of us are still processing what happened in their life last year. They are still in the middle of thinking about how life will be the following days in celebration of the holiday season.
Even if we are still grieving inside, we choose to celebrate the season and see the brighter side of this holiday season. The pain we experience and the sadness leads us to many days of crying and reminiscing. Those are the moments we want to forget and don't want to experience anymore.
Forgetting what it feels like sad and devastated because we can't bury our loved ones. We can't have any funerals with the people who loved and cared for them because of the pandemic. But this year will be a little different as we are getting by with the pain we had last year and already accepting what happened.
This year's holiday celebration is full of hope for the next year to come. Hopeful for change and brighter days to come. There will be more good news, and the pandemic will be gone forever to have a life back even if we are missing out on some people in our lives.
We want to make this year's holiday the happiest as we open a positive vibe to the new year. The grief and the sorrow we had shall be forgotten, and enjoy life. We will make the pain and sadness our inspiration to move forward. Once we have fully recovered from our loss, we can fully appreciate everything that has happened in our life.
Everything has a purpose, and we experience this to be the better version of ourselves. We become more robust, and we can be a blessing to other people's lives. We can give them advice if they have experienced the first loss in their life, and we can be the reliable comforter they need. But we need to remind ourselves of things so we won't be overwhelmed.
When you feel that you have already moved on, you can pause before taking a new adventure.
Pausing our life, we appreciate small details of everything, from the design of our room to the whole interior of the house. From then, we can think of better things to do. Sometimes, we are too aggressive in taking the chances of making a move. Even if we move on and are ready to take on another challenge, we need to know and calculate our risks in life.
We need to know what we are entering and where it is heading. We can think of better things to do and alternative options to divert our energy from them. It means we are ready to jump into new things right away. We need to assess things.
Celebrate the holiday without reservation.
You can be all out when you want to celebrate this holiday season, especially when celebrating it with your family. It is good to be all out sometimes. It tells the world that you are over with sadness and loneliness in life. And you are ready to take on a new challenge.
You can enjoy the holiday without feeling guilty because you just lost someone in your family. Remember that your loved ones would like to see you enjoying life and smiling rather than being alone in sadness while everyone is hype for the holidays.
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Take care of yourself before you care for other people.
We can't give other people what we don't have. That is why we need to take care of ourselves before others. We need to be the person we want to be and achieve the life we want to have before advising people.
We need to take care of our physical and mental health before we can comfort people grieving if we want to help them. The value we have in our life will show in our behavior. The way people see and approach us depends on how we treat them.
Caring for ourselves is not a sin. But a necessity. We need to start caring for ourselves and get better. Once we get all the love we need, we can share it and spread it to our friends, family, and other people. It should start with us.
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