Ashes Ring to Remember Our Loved Ones

Over the past two (2) years, we have been battling our freedom to go outside and see our loved ones. It is an exhausting battle that we are still fighting today. We experience staying at home the whole day,24/7, and most of us lost our jobs because of the global pandemic that we have experienced. Some of us lost our loved ones while surviving this battle. And keep our loved ones remain in an ashes ring.

Since all the people affected with Covid-19 and passed away will be cremated, no one can visit them aside from the nurses and the attending doctor. They can only see their loved ones when they are already in ashes. And they can't mourn for them.

They cannot see them before being cremated and the last days of their life-fighting Covid-19. For them, 2020 until the middle of 2021 was a hellish journey. Everything shattered, and no one anticipated things like this would happen. Since then, many things have changed, and people are already starting to adopt the new standard system the world is creating. 

And these affected some of the students' learning processes and their motivation to attend school. Distant learning has become one of the most in-demand learning in the world. It has also become the year of technology and hype of demand for internet connection. But it was the year of mourning and grieving for most of us. 

2020 was also the year of longing. It was the year of questions and reevaluation. Indeed, it was the draining two (2) years of our lives, and after the mid-2021 starts, we are slowly getting back what we lost. We start visiting the people we missed and dine in our favorite restaurant.

The only thing that made this time a little easier to bear was memories. The beautiful memories of our departed loved ones gave us the strength to hold on. Memorial jewellery helped us remember our lost loved ones and keep a piece of them with us. 

When the government has already announced that we can go outside and under some restrictions, some of us visit our loved one's graves, especially those we cannot have their remains cremated and have as a remembrance. The freedom we had was the breath of the fresh air we needed for a long time. 

And the new year came to us. Hope was very evident in our faces that we could have the life we used to have before the pandemic hit us. The grief that we had for the past two (2) years is slowly fading and replaced with joy and hope that one day everything will go back to what it used to be.

Now that things are different. We become more confident and visit our loved ones who live far from our homes. A therapy that we need since we isolate ourselves from the world. And make our house our fortress that no one can get inside unless safe. 

Some of us still have second thoughts and hesitations about where this year would lead us. And are not confident enough to set foot on another journey. But this year is for healing. We need to heal to move on. This year is the time to heal and restart our life and build our future again. With keepsake jewellery we can move on without forgetting the people we lost. We can carry them with us and take them on a new journey with us. 

Reconstruct ourselves and heal from all the wounds that it causes us. But remember the life of our loved ones as an inspiration. We don't need an overnight change, like Cinderella, but we can take our healing time. There is no need to rush. 

And when taking our time, we need to make sure that while we are taking our healing time, we do things that are beneficial for us. We should not deprive ourselves of the things that make us happy and help us heal. Instead, do something that we love that will not comprise any of the rules given for our safety. 

• Visit our loved ones often.

Visiting our loved ones will make our hearts happy. Despite all the challenges we encounter for as long as we have our loved ones, we can conquer them all. And visiting them often after the whole pandemic isolation will make us feel so alive. Their presence is enough to ease all worries away. 

• Clear our minds with negative thoughts.

We can't focus on what we have as our goals if we are crowded with negative things in our lives. So we sometimes need to clear all that hinders us from achieving our goals. We need to have an eye for what is on the end of the road. And we should not have any negative thoughts in our minds. It will ruin our plans. 

• We can try to sleep with calm music.

With all that is happening now, though we have the freedom, we need to move around and be outside. But sometimes, we still get anxious about what will happen in the future or what future awaits us. It will hit these questions and sadness when we are about to sleep since we recall all the things that happened in our day and remember all the things we experienced two years ago. That is why we need to have calm music that will help us to calm down.